Things We Do Not Tell the People We Love

Things We Do Not Tell the People We Love by Huma Qureshi
Reviewed by Jess
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After reading How We Met and feeling so connected to her story, when Huma Qureshi returned with this short story collection, we as a book club jumped on this book immediately. Itโ€™s a collection of fictional tales about the impact of silence and biting your tongue in relationships, between mothers and daughters, best friends, lovers, families. All of the stories are really contemporary (one might even say very stereotypically middle class!) and the underlying themes in all are a great thread that takes you through this examination on what it means to belong to someone, yearn for something or be your true self.

Humaโ€™s words are lyrical and truly take you deep into the snapshot in time, what the character is feeling, the intensity and rush of emotion in the moment. The rhythm and ease of the stories make them easy to fall into, and still satisfying even though theyโ€™re not full novellas in and of themselves. I know that Too Much is the standout story for many; it did shock me to see such a fraught mother-daughter relationship displayed so starkly and I know many of us who read it were inclined to call their moms ASAP! Itโ€™s the little nuances and everyday familiar scenarios laid out in the context of what we indeed do not say, that make you catch your breath as you read.

My normal reading patterns often mean I pick up short story collections when Iโ€™m in a reading rut or I want something easy to digest. But Humaโ€™s book isnโ€™t like that at all - it deserves your time and consideration as a whole book, as the stories complement each other and each one expands your heart slightly more than the one before. For the record, my favourite stories were Firecracker, The Wishes, and Premonition in particular; such a powerful opening story on a young crush gone sour, and the power dynamics that young boys can leverage on girls.

Jess Pancholi

Iโ€™ve got to start this off by thanking Linda for putting together this amazing group of ladies who I love dearly! Linda was my uni/PhD wife for 8 solid years and books were one of the many things that bound us together - pun intended! I really think our book family is amazing, diverse and we really influence each other to push our reading boundaries (and crack each other up with our banter and jokes haha!) The family extends to you followers too - and we are just getting started!

According to everyone in my family and numerous home movies I was forever reading books.  Spot the Dog and anything Beatrix Potter were my jam. They say your love of reading never dies and I can absolutely say that is true! The books might be more grown up but Iโ€™m still there, book in hand (and snacks to boot!) ready to lose myself in a story.I canโ€™t say for sure what my preferred genre of book is - Iโ€™ve read everything from biographies to epic modern novels and classic tales too - and of course as a scientist I dabble in a little popular sci lit on the side. Iโ€™m always willing to try something wacky and weird, even if I donโ€™t like it in the end but I guess thatโ€™s why Iโ€™m part of The Candid Book Club, eh?

If you asked me to recommend some books to you, I would say that Anna Karenina by Leo Tolstoy is my absolute favourite ever; its worth it, I promise!I also love: Stargirl by Jerry Spinelli (shout out if you read this in high school - itโ€™s YA that really sticks with you) Brave New World by Aldous Huxley The Good Immigrant edited by Nikesh Shukla (this is ESSENTIAL reading) Sputnik Sweetheart by Haruki Murakami A Little Life by Hanyayan Agihara, Yes Please by Amy Poehler. And of course- The Tale of Jemima Puddleduck by Beatrix Potter

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